Note on Cremated Remains
The cremated remains must always be treated with respect, the same respect we attribute to the body. After the funeral they are to be interred or entombed, preferably in a Catholic cemetery, mausoleum or columbarium. The Rite of Committal should accompany this action. They should never be separated or scattered or disposed in any way other than a dignified interment or entombment.
The Catholic liturgy always provides courage and comfort for those mourning the death of the one they loved. However, the more the family, relatives and friends actively plan and participate in the ceremony itself the deeper will be the consolation and strength they experience.
These web pages have been designed to facilitate such active involvement in preparing for and taking part in the Funeral Mass of Christian Burial.
Placing of the Pall. A funeral pall, reminding us of the garment given at baptism and therefore symbolizing our life in Christ, is draped over the coffin at the beginning of the liturgy. Family members or friends are encouraged to do this. Please select 2 – 6 family members or friends for this.
Scripture Readings. Using the book of funeral readings below, we invite you to make a selection of ONE reading from the Old Testament section and ONE reading from the New Testament section. The priest for the funeral will select the Gospel.
Presentation of Gifts. The church encourages family members or friends at the Funeral Mass to bring to the altar the bread and wine. Please select up to three family members to present the gifts.
Music. More than anything else in worship, music affects our feelings and the atmosphere in which we pray. You are invited to select up to four hymns from the parish hymnal for the funeral liturgy. Click on the list of commonly requested funeral songs below.
Selection Sheet. When you have finished making your selections, please fill-in the funeral selction form provided below, save it, and then email it to Funerals@smqoc.com.
You can also print it and either fax it to the parish office at 586-725-3647 or present it to funeral director or parish office the day before the liturgy.
Questions. Please review the brochure below for Questions and Answers about Catholic Funerals or contact our Parish Office.